Is it hard to learn Tagalog?

I've been living in Hawaii for 12 years now.I am fluent in speaking Ilocano and I can understand a little bit of Tagalog.I am mostly Filipino and have a bit of Spanish blood.I am also planning on attending a college in the Philippines.What is your opinion on learning Tagalog?
What I hate about the language is that my family and relatives always use it when they're talking about me.

I want to learn how to speak filipino,Cebuano actually. Does anybody know where i can go?

i'm getting married soon and i would like to learn a little bit.
is there a link online?

What is the best software to get so I can learn how to speak tagalog?

I understand most of the tagalog lanuage and I can speak a little bit of it, but I want to be fluent with the language within a year, what kinda of software is available for me that will get me to reach my goal?